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spoon theory

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[spoon thee-uh-ree, theer-ee] / ˈspun ˌθi ə ri, ˌθɪər i /

noun

  1. (sometimes initial capital letters) a metaphor to explain how a person with a disability or chronic disease must manage energy expenditures, calculate effort, and conserve resources to accomplish activities of daily living.


Etymology

Origin of spoon theory

Coined by Christine Miserandino (born 1978), U.S. blogger and author, in her essay “The Spoon Theory” (2003)